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what should I do?

I broke up with him, and then I realized I did things in the past that were very wrong and I regret my actions. Wanted to make up for my mistakes and wanted to get back with him. But he rejected me everytime I ask him. Sometimes, I wonder if he doesn't love me anymore or if he is just afraid I will hurt him again so that's why he rejects me. We've been together for a while, so what should I do?

Quote: 1, "I broke up with him"
Quote: 2, "......afraid I will hurt him again "
Quote: 3, "We've been together for a while...."


Q: How long u r w/ him honestly?
Q: How bad u hurt him in the past?
Q: You meant you ask him to leave you or not?

A 1: two years
A 2: not that bad, not like I cheated or anything, but I was very stubborn and 小姐皮氣﹐ and I initiated break ing up many times, and other stuff like getting mad easily
A 3: I told him that I think we should stop seeing each other, and then I changed my mind

My personal experience ( as a guy ) is better to stop seeing each other for some time. How long? I don't have a good idea. All I know is you should not call him no matter how difficult it is. It will just make it worst.
The love for him to you is not strong enough to overcome his fear ( that you created ). But bad memory will fade away as time goes by. He needs some time. He may see some other girl(s) in the mean time, you have to respect that. It's been two years, I got to ask you how many wonderful moment you both share ( just tell yourself ). You also need some time for yourself to grow. Since it looks like you already knew some of your own problems that help you to start with. And make youself more attractive meanwhile. I got to go. Talk to U later.

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so i found out that he's dating this girl we both know, shortly after we broke up. he really broke my heart,  what would you guys do if something like this were to happen or have happened to you guys in the past

find another one will is the best solution.

as i dated b4 with my ex gf about 1.5  year s. as a result, she broke up with me.

Earlier time, she mention to broke up with me many times, but i reject.

till the end, she insists to broke up with me.

and i took about  1 years to cure my wound in my heart. Basically, i love her very much ..

juz due to the distance problem she get the nearest one. little sad  once think back.

but it is a history  so .. i dont want to recall back so.. better let it go.. and better thing will come approach you.

I find that almost all the guys told me to find another one, i think it's always easier for a guy to find another girl, and it's always harder for a girl to find a guy

let go 啦

好多事過去就過去,    彌補是沒有意思的,     

只要你肯上路,      都有機會與對方再次碰面,      假若原地踏步,    那就永遠無法追到對方,   明嗎 !

i don't really know what you mean, but it's interesting what you said